January 5th, 2009 
admin People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water … because it works … or at least, it can work. Women are generally afraid of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. Everything they have heard, are on the fear that things can happen … and I must say, they have a right to ensure the extreme. This is not only wise but vital. So, what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’ta pervert, a sexual predator, or a Weirdo. They are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.
You need some patience. Do not press for their personal information such as their real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Do not try to rush them in meeting face to face. You will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and work. A good relationship has never and will never, on lies and deception. Eventually they will find out the truth and still you are back to square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Many post pictures of themselves doing your daily activities and make it whole-recordings, not just head shots. If you were a girl in the real world would not only find it in your head.
Once the discussion was opened about meeting face to face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place in daylight, and that they have a friend with her. Because you have nothing to hide. They told her the truth about himself and has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to their sense of security, a meeting with you.
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